SEEKING A POLYAMORY THERAPIST?

Love without limits deserves clarity, not chaos.

Queer Talk is the place to explore couples therapy for polyamory with a poly friendly therapist. 

SEEKING A POLYAMORY THERAPIST?

Love without limits deserves clarity, not chaos.

Queer Talk is the place to explore couples therapy for polyamory with a poly friendly therapist.

QUEER TALK THERAPY

POLYAMORY AND ETHICAL NON-MONOGAMY AREN’T PROBLEMS THEY’RE POSSIBILITIES

KINK & POLY THERAPISTS

Kink and polyamory often get lumped together by therapists who don’t understand either. Queer Talk does not do that. 

 

Kink is about erotic expression, power, fantasy, and negotiated dynamics. Polyamory is about relationship structure, attachment, time, and commitment across multiple partners. Some people inhabit both worlds. Many do not. The QT Method starts by making that distinction cleanly, then works with what is actually true for you. No assumptions. No collapsing desire into diagnosis. This is culturally fluent therapy that understands the difference and treats each with precision and respect.

POLYAMOROUS COUPLES THERAPY

Whether you’re curious, experiencedPolyamorous couples therapy here focuses on relationship structure, not sexual preference. 

 

Using the QT Method, we address how agreements are made, how power moves inside a polycule, where jealousy or invisibility shows up, and how trust is repaired after rupture. This is not rule-stacking or endless processing. It is strategic couples work that helps partners stay connected while navigating multiple attachments with honesty, agency, and emotional integrity., or somewhere between, this space meets you where you are.
Therapy that speaks your language, not one that tries to translate your love.

ENM (ETHICAL NON-MONOGAMY) THERAPY

ENM therapy at Queer Talk is about skill, not ideology. 

 

Ethical non-monogamy requires clarity, communication, and the capacity to tolerate discomfort without acting from fear or control. The QT Method treats ENM as a living system that must be designed, tested, and renegotiated over time. Whether you are opening a relationship, recovering from broken agreements, or realizing your current structure no longer fits, this work helps you move deliberately instead of reactively.

“Troy was the first therapist who didn’t flinch when I talked about loving more than one person. He got it—no explanations required.”
Queer Talk Therapy illustration of a transgender client, symbolizing affirming WPATH letters and gender-affirming care.
Devon
- Chicago, il

Polyamory Counseling

Therapy focused on relationship structure, agreements, attachment, and repair for people practicing or exploring polyamory, not kink education or sexual performance.

This is where things get real.

Work with a therapist who understands polyamory as a legitimate relational framework and does not treat it as a phase, pathology, or problem to be solved.

Supportive, Focused, Effective

Sessions are direct and strategic, designed to create clarity, reduce friction, and help relationships function with intention instead of constant renegotiation.

Confidential & Judgment-Free

Your relationship structure, desires, and conflicts are met with discretion and respect, without moralizing or covert pressure toward monogamy.

Practical Tools & Support

You will leave with usable language, agreement frameworks, and repair strategies that hold up in real life, not just in theory.

Inclusive and Judgment-Free

All identities, relationship constellations, and configurations are welcome, without assumptions about sexuality, kink, or how love is supposed to look.

STRUCTURE & FORMAT

Polyamory and ENM counseling at Queer Talk is offered in person only at the Chicago Loop office. Working together in the same room allows for clearer communication, stronger containment, and more effective relational work.

 

Sessions are private pay and scheduled intentionally to support focused, relationship-centered care.

“I used to think poly meant constant drama. Now I know it can mean clarity, joy, and trust. That shift started here.”
Queer Talk Therapy illustration of a smiling transgender client, representing affirming WPATH letters for gender surgery.
Lena
-Chattanooga, TN
Masculine-presenting person standing in a Queer Talk Therapy office in Chicago, wearing casual clothing and smiling

FREE THERAPY CONSULT | 30-MIN VIDEO CALL

Designed for a strong start in therapy.

A brief, structured consult with an experienced clinician.

We use this time to understand your goals, your context, and what kind of therapeutic work makes sense right now. You leave with a clear recommendation for next steps and a grounded sense of whether this approach fits.

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LET’S START WITH A CONVERSATION

Questions. Curiosity. Logistics. Nerves. All of it is welcome here.

Send a message and we’ll reply by email within one business day.

Start where you are. We’ll take it from there.

If talking feels easier, you can schedule a free 30 minute phone consult anytime.