How I Work
When you sit down with me, you get a therapist who shows up fully. I don’t hide behind a blank slate. I won’t sit across from you nodding silently and calling it therapy. I talk with you. I challenge you. I hand you a new way of seeing yourself that you cannot unsee. The struggles I work with most often show up in thinking, choices, behavior and relationships. In our work I connect the dots, trace the patterns and name the lies. From there we shape the choices that make a different life possible. I will not let you stay cemented in a life you did not choose.
My Story
I know what it means to wrestle with identity. I came out late. I fought through faith and sexuality. And I’ve sat in the client chair more than once. Therapy didn’t just influence my work, it saved my life.
Margaret, my first therapist, showed me I could be okay as I am. Hank, my second, held me accountable until I found my footing and became a social worker.
I carry both experiences with me: the vulnerability of being a client and the responsibility of being a provider. That duality shapes everything about how I practice today.
My Experience
Fifteen years later, I carry not just clinical expertise but the perspective of someone who has been in the chair across cities and contexts, from Chattanooga, to Gettysburg, to Chicago. Each place shaped how I see people, culture, and the ways we heal. That breadth helps me meet clients with more nuance and more imagination.
I’ve also trained interns to bring queer literacy into this field and sat with leaders and professionals as they dismantled the cages they built around themselves. The letters, the recognition, the professional milestones, they matter less than what my clients tell me: “Every time I leave, I know something new about myself.”
Who I Work Best With
I work best with people who want more than comfort, people willing to disrupt their patterns and break the cultural scripts holding them back.
Whether you’re navigating gender transition, rethinking relationships, or reconnecting with a buried part of yourself, my role is the same: I cut through the noise, bring clarity, and walk with you as you practice something new.
Why It Matters
I’m not here to soothe you into tolerating a broken system. I’m here to help you build a life that feels like yours, one that reflects your values, your identity, and your courage to live differently.